Any healthy man will get excited several times faster than a woman. For many, a quick glance at a naked body is enough for an erection and subsequent intercourse. Others need reinforcement in the form of tactile stimulation - these are people who have a kinesthetic type of perception of information from the outside. They need to touch everything, feel it physically to process it with their brain and accept it. If your partner loves touch and is most turned on by it, then he belongs to this group. Of course, a man with an increased need for touch will not refuse to see a beautiful girl, but your arsenal should include stimulating techniques with your hands and other parts of the body!
It is a false belief that only half of women need foreplay. Men also love affection and don't mind prolonging the pleasure they receive to relax physically and psychologically. And there are no fewer erogenous points on a strong torso than a beautiful girl. For a quality erotic session, you need knowledge of sensitive areas, so let's enrich our baggage with seduction techniques together. Today we will learn how to stimulate men with our hands, and learn how to press all the "red buttons"!
Erogenous points in men, caress them properly
The erogenous zone is the area of the skin that is most sensitive to touch and influence. Their caresses help increase arousal and erection. Over time, you will learn to identify not only the general male erogenous zone, but also the individual zone for each individual man, which gives you power over the stronger sex. A man goes crazy when a girl caresses him as if she is reading his innermost thoughts at that moment! Let's move on to practical exercises.
Head and face
You should not think that all sensitive areas are concentrated in the penis and scrotum area. Most men get pleasure from combing their hair with women's hands. No less pleasant is the tenderness of touching the back of your hand to your cheek, eyebrow, and chin. Stroke her hair with your fingers spread wide until it falls between them, and brush the ends against her face. You can complete the action with a soft kiss on the earlobe. What moved me the most was not the fact of the lips touching, but the warm breath, which was very acutely felt.
Neck
This part of the man's body is suitable for arousing passion with the hands. The most exposed area is the strip of skin from the earlobe to the center of the shoulder. Move your fingertips up and down and follow with a kiss. You can use tongue caresses if your partner responds positively to the stimulation.
The line from the beginning of hair growth and down to the interscapular area is the track. The hot journey starts from here, indicating that the woman will soon descend and there will be "bounties". . . Gently walk over it with the edge of your palm or fingers. Most likely, your body will be covered with goosebumps. repeat
back
Behind, to properly stimulate a man with your hands, you need to touch several things:
- between the shoulder blades
- above the shoulder blade, closer to the shoulder area,
- 3-5 cm below the interscapular zone,
- on both sides of the coccyx + the coccyx itself.
These "collectors" of lust can be caressed with your fingertips, hair, and some girls know how to influence them effectively with their breasts. Men are very excited by the touch of a woman's nipple on their back.
For most men, hugging from behind is a very attractive gesture, especially in the case of a completely naked female body.
If everything is fine with the vegetation in your intimate area, you can use an overt provocation - caress the sacral back (coccyx area) with your vagina. It should be remembered that in a few seconds the man will not be able to resist his desire, so the seduction with secret techniques will end there. Your only option is to tie him up or handcuff him.
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Body trunk
In the front of the body, the most sensual points that immediately respond to caresses are the nipples and the hairy abdomen, leading to the peak of male prowess. Please note that boys have slightly different nipple sensitivity than girls, so you should not pull them with the same intensity. There are individuals for whom such incentives are unpleasant, therefore, dear tigresses and panthers, we purr and listen to the wishes of our tempted objects. Many people like it when a girl stretches her palms over her chest and stomach, while sitting on top.
Shoulders and arms
The shoulders themselves are not an erogenous zone, but a light massage of the center will help ensure a smooth transition from one part of the body to another. Hands, on the other hand, have some pretty sensitive things.
- The outside of the elbow, or rather the inner fold of the arm, is a place that is more susceptible to light touch. More ruthless tactics go unanswered. You can move from this place to the wrist with your fingertips back and forth.
- The area between the middle and ring fingers. Many men respond to his touch by stroking the penis.
- The inside of the palm and fingertips are also very sensitive to the gentle touch of hands, lips and warm breath.
legs
Do you still think that men's feet are not involved in passion and are only needed for support during sexual intercourse? You are so wrong! Feet, it turns out, are real erogenous cauldrons! Kneading the fingers, stroking the heels and backs of the feet gently makes the owner more enthusiastic.
The hole below the knee is another erogenous zone to arouse a man with his hands. Caresses, light touches, pressure turn men on wildly.
The junction of the torso and thighs is full of nerve endings, which makes it possible to classify this area on the male body as highly erogenous. Stroking the hip bone with your fingers can make a man shiver with pleasure.
Anus
Many men do not allow a woman to enter this area at gunpoint because they are ashamed or afraid to create an image of someone focused on their own kind. And nature created him very erogenous! External and internal anal caresses turn any man on. The main thing is to relax. Gently stroking the anal ring with your fingertips gives the man the right feeling. If you want, you can put your finger on her ass and feel the most sensitive point there with maximum response to passionate appeal. We have written how to do this in the article on how to persuade your husband to have sex with a strap-on - read.
Rod and scrotum
And the main course, of course, masculinity! Stroking the testicles with your hands (pulling, squeezing, scratching), masturbating the penis itself and touching the skin between the anus and the genitals can cause ejaculation. It all depends on your skills.
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The right way to stroke the penis with your hands to stimulate men
To properly stimulate a man with your hands, you need to know how to handle his penis. Some girls are sure that jerking up and down and sanding the foreskin is enough for an enchanting sensation. They are so wrong. You need to know how to handle a penis, and be no less careful than a woman's vagina.
The right grip
There are several basic ways to grab a penis.
- The traditional option is the fist bump, where the movement can be translational "up and down", or it can imply rotation in a circle.
- We press the head on top with our thumb, and the rest lies below.
- It is necessary to make a small ring (OK sign) from the thumb and index finger, connect them and release your fist (see the picture below),
- If you first lubricate your hands with lubricant, it will be easy to stimulate a man. The fist in an inverted position (you need to look at the back of the hand and the thumb is pointing towards the woman) should move as if it were crushing the penis.
Caress with fingers and hands
To increase the sensation of a partner, a woman needs to take care of the warmth of her hands first. By using any technique of holding the penis, stimulating the man with warm hands, you can reach orgasm quickly. But you should not heat the scrotum. There is nothing good about this for men's health.
Some representatives of the stronger sex like it when a woman pats the dick with her finger phalanx. It is best to do this by imagining that you are playing the guitar, so as not to visually scare your partner with sweeping movements.
A man gets a special sensation when his penis is caressed by two women's hands at the same time. We put dignity between the palms without bending the fingers. We move up and down slowly and smoothly, touching the head with the thumb of one hand and making circular movements.
If your partner has a large amount of foreskin, pull him in a different way: you don't need to go to the base, instead, do squeezing manipulations towards the head. Under the skin, the main erogenous zone is stroked - the head of the penis, and due to the fact that the stroke is done indirectly, there is no risk of erasing it. A man with such a structure comes brightly from such a technique!
It is important not to forget to rub the testicles. The effect of simple massage movements will not only give pleasure, but will also bring health: you can avoid problems with potency in adulthood by regularly stroking and kneading the testicles. Take it in your hand, hold it, squeeze it, pull it slightly to the side or down (a little! this is not a wrist extender! ), then start massaging the base of the penis in a circular motion and gently touch it. testicles.
An unusual caress with a nail plate, which should be drawn along the trunk and along the scrotum, will add piquancy and enhance the overall effect of the process.
After the guy is really excited, you can move on to more daring experiments. To continue, the girl has to rub her labia on her partner's penis and make sliding movements without penetrating the vagina.
Combining the suggested technique with a high-quality blowjob will help surprise your man and bring him to ecstasy in a few minutes! The truth is, there are no hard and fast rules on how to properly arouse a man with your hands. To achieve harmony, examine his body centimeter by centimeter and monitor his reaction.
Some tips on massage techniques
We tell you how to prepare a man for sexual intercourse and arouse him as much as possible, but you want to create a signature feature so that he is completely and irrevocably addicted. Let's try to beat potential competitors and find an anchor that we will put him like a drug!
- Always lubricate your hands with oil or cream to ensure smooth movement. Slides turn men on.
- Apply pressure, stroking, lightly pinching the muscles and be sure to pause for a few seconds. This is very passionate.
- Always start your journey from the upper body and lower gradually. No need to go straight to the genitals.
- When moving to the perineum, play with clothes or towels stretched after the shower to create more arousal. Put your hand in your unbuttoned pants or under the towel, massage your private parts and whisper in his ear how much it turns you on.
- You can maintain a commanding tone and order him what he does the next minute. Even strong men get excited when a girl takes the initiative into her own hands.
- Combining caresses with each other. Let the exciting hand massage turn into a wild party, when the young man no longer understands where his body is and where his penis is. A wave of madness should cover him!
- Use your chest. You can caress the penis with two palms and rest the head on the nipple. Men love to touch their breasts with their hard cocks!
And the main advice is to always use complicated Thai techniques. When you have reached the main point, choose another very sensitive area and caress it at the same time. This can be member's anus, member's lower back, member's back, etc. You yourself will see what men respond to more. When he finishes, move to another secondary zone and caress without interrupting for another 20-30 seconds, as if to calm your partner. It should not be the most sensitive so as not to cause irritation. Repeat this over and over - it will do the trick.
To stimulate a man with your hands and bring him to orgasm, you don't have to wait for a hint or a request from him. As a rule, representatives of the stronger sex do not refuse to give the initiative in bed to their partner, depending on his playful mood and passionate nature. Surprise and spontaneity are excellent conditions for bold experiments and 100% male stimulation.
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